Pam 7-2015My name is Pamela Vandervoort and I am a dating expert! I started the Dating Support Community because I believe there is someone for everyone. I also know that when you learn how to date correctly it is a valuable tool for you to connect with your True Love. Learning to date correctly will also prepare you so that when that special someone arrives in your life you are ready!  

My dating experiences began after my ex-husband and I were divorced. Before I married, I was a serial monogamist, going from one relationship to another. When I met my ex-husband, we were good friends and he was good marriage material. But something was missing. After we divorced, I bought into all the stereotypical beliefs that I was too old, there are no good men out there, there are no single men where I live and I was afraid of getting hurt. I was afraid that I had made a huge mistake and lost my only chance for love. I was afraid I would be alone the rest of my life. When I realized that sitting home with dirty hair, Doritos, and ice cream was not getting me anywhere, I gathered the courage and decided to date.  

I did it all! I was an international party girl, spending time in the club scene in New York, Las Vegas, Los Angeles, Paris, Ibiza, you name it, I was there! I was single, after all, so I wanted to make the most of it! I tried internet dating and was one of the top hits on match.com, I tried speed dating and even tried matchmaking. And I made every dating mistake there was!  I got involved with the wrong men too fast and stayed with them too long, I scared away some really great men because I felt insecure and came on too strong. I had some awful first dates. I obsessed way too long over dates with men I liked but who did not call. And I dragged out dates with men I was not interested in because I was afraid of hurting their feelings.  

Then, much to my surprise, as I began to work with clients I found they made the same mistakes I made and were having similar dating experiences. I realized there has to be a better way! So I started the My Dating Support Community to help you find your ideal relationship by learning to date in a way that is fun, easy and works for you! I will also help you avoid all the mistakes and heartache that I and so many other single people experience when they begin dating.   I am fascinated with relationships and have spent the last fifteen years of my life studying and observing relationships and human behavior.  I have a Bachelor’s Degree in Communication Studies from the University of San Diego and a Master’s Degree in Spiritual Psychology from the University of Santa Monica. I began helping people find their true love after successfully completing my first workshop Conscious Relationships for my master’s degree special project. 

As a result I have helped many people successfully find the love of their life.   I believe that THERE IS SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE and EVERYONE DESERVES LOVE.   It is my personal mission to help every person who wants to be in relationship find their true love.  

If you have had your heart broken or even suffered relationship trauma and you’ve been dating for over a year but are still single, don’t you owe it to yourself to find out why?

Discover how my clients went from horrible dating experiences and struggling to find love to in-love and engaged in six months!